tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post4753576177345619784..comments2023-10-31T14:44:54.394+00:00Comments on Life..as I know it: Unpleasant flashbackTanveehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09404674967792684516noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-65383521277291070292015-02-23T01:38:42.524+00:002015-02-23T01:38:42.524+00:00Hi Tanvee, I do not agree with this trainer about ...Hi Tanvee, I do not agree with this trainer about your weight. You look beautiful (no exaggeration) right now, you eat really healthy foods, and you are fit. And, last year, didn't you have a trainer suggesting the opposite? If you have found a balance that keeps your weight you lost off and you are happy with, I think that is something probably a million women wish they could figure out. <-- It is no small thing at all. Make your own choice. Your choices so far have added up to where you are now. :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09499442282999349686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-63951167962326611582015-02-10T12:39:33.862+00:002015-02-10T12:39:33.862+00:00Tanvee, I totally know what you're saying and ...Tanvee, I totally know what you're saying and your new attitude is an indication of the inner strength that develops from going through the grueling process of changing lifestyles - from an unhealthy one to a healthy one. It is not unnatural to feel shocked, hurt, or upset … I don't think you/we should ever hide from our emotions. It's what we do with them that shows our character … and your resolve shows how strong you really are. <br /><br />As for the trainer -- I think it's important to let him know if he says something that you feel is counterproductive to your progress. The last thing you want to do is invest time, energy, and money in someone who doesn't see you for who you are - no comparisons. No judgment. Surround yourself with the best possible people who will help you rise and flourish. PlumPetalshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16879841900594034234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-17686234375762314152015-02-10T10:54:10.595+00:002015-02-10T10:54:10.595+00:00Dear Tanvee,
Being compared with your training bu...Dear Tanvee, <br />Being compared with your training buddy is not something that should be happening. I choose to believe that the PT’s intentions were good, but he had a wrong approach and a little bit unprofessional - if you ask me. I used to be a little bit overweight as well and to be compared, reminded and jugged over that! Yeah I know the feeling.. For years I had to hide to eat so other people will not see me and won’t judge me. My self-esteem was one with the floor. And it’s not easy to overcome it. But I moved on, made the change and I’m a completely different person now. <br />When training with people with a better fitness level than yours: I used to train with a girl way to stronger than me, and her fitness level was unbelievable. Back then I wants even as half as strong as I am now. But I choose to see this a POSITIVE not a negative thing, I've learned from her, I worked hard with her because she pushed me. <br />All I’m trying to say is when you find someone stronger that you to train, stick with them, because they will only push you and motivate you to get better and you always learn from them. <br />You are a very strong girl and personally I believe that you can achieve anything you want, you will figure it out. <br /><br />Sorry for the long letter <br /><br />Best,<br />N <br />Natalia Asimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01597232139973588097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-11464340213751399932015-02-05T15:43:44.673+00:002015-02-05T15:43:44.673+00:00I think you look too good! I think you are the str...I think you look too good! I think you are the strongest girl I know!<br /><br />@zainab<br />www.thetwinsmommy.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-78312414354024488582015-02-04T23:27:57.808+00:002015-02-04T23:27:57.808+00:00Wow, I don't know how I would react in that si...Wow, I don't know how I would react in that situation. I would not like being compared to someone more fit at all. Esp by your instructor. I would probably want to tell him off, and then never go back! Maybe he thought he was being helpful, and you should tell him how it made you feel. Be honest with him. I don't know how much 6kgs is in American terms, but I don't think you look like you need to lose any! But I know we all see ourselves differently than other people do.From Ice Cream to Marathonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911974408263254818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-46994240102850917182015-02-04T20:56:09.884+00:002015-02-04T20:56:09.884+00:00Oops try again.......
Just sometimes negativity c...Oops try again.......<br /><br />Just sometimes negativity can be a good thing because we go onto the POSITIVES.<br /><br />Keep focused, keep determined and achieve.<br /><br />All the best JanLowcarb team memberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07961199165290289611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-65856905927099681792015-02-04T20:54:31.719+00:002015-02-04T20:54:31.719+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Lowcarb team memberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07961199165290289611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8366930371443550382.post-4846893723290495192015-02-03T17:24:40.611+00:002015-02-03T17:24:40.611+00:00I really appreciate your determination and tenacit...I really appreciate your determination and tenacity..I hope you achieve your goals..ronnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05749172651378234016noreply@blogger.com