Now that you have a great plan the final and most important step is making sure you can stick to the plan. The only way I can always manage to see my plan through when I am mentally ready. I might be great at following a plan on my usual days but the minute I go on a break or are in celebration mood suddenly I used to become a different person
Here is my reality check for the holiday
season
More than usual effort
Workouts
I might have break from work, I might not have
strict schedule to follow but that’s when I need to put in more effort for
getting my workout done. Usually I have a very fixed routine but the minute I
am on break I have noticed I have to take extra care to avoid pushing my work
out ahead. Usually I know I can only workout really early in the morning before
work or immediately after work but when I am on break it’s easy to get up late
promising to work out later in the day and as the day ends I would often
realize I had missed my workout because I would keep pushing it ahead.
So now I make it a point to continue sticking to my
usual workout time whenever possible even if I know I could work out later
during the day I still wake up early and finish it. It’s also not easy to be the only one getting
out in the cold for a run or getting out of the house in the dark when
everybody else is sleeping or sitting with hot chocolate when you know you can
do it later. I think I need more mental strength and I
need to keep reminding yourself what is important and also of what makes me divert from my plan
Food
Most of us avoid unhealthy food; we avoid buying
chocolates, cookies, cakes...out of sight out of mind does not really work
during festivals. This is when you actually find out how much you really want
to change? This is when you might be surrounded by a lot of unhealthy food and
you will have to happily look away. I always remind myself what is more
important to me, I remind myself how bad I feel if I eat something I planned
not to eat. I focus on my favorites and ignore the rest, I need to keep reminding myself to be strong, I need to be my own motivation so I can control my food.
Just you because you
manage your workouts and eating well everyday does not mean you will manage
them well during holidays be prepared to put in that extra effort
Believing in
yourself is very important:
You might have a plan, you might be prepared but if
you don’t believe in yourself, if you are not proud of the effort you put in
for being healthy you will go off track the minute somebody judges you. This is
one big obstacle in my life and to this day I worry about this. I am becoming
more confident every day and I do stand up for myself more than I used to but I
know it’s not easy to say no or to argue with somebody about your food choices
when you do not feel good about yourself. I used to give in and eat if somebody
forced me to because I was just not used to saying No; I would feel embarrassed if
people would question me about my portions so I would eat what people expected me to instead of what I wanted to.
These days I make it a point to look back at how
far I have come because of the choices I have made for the past few years. I
think about all the things I have been able to do just because I started living
a healthier life this usually helps me say No and it also helps me to confidently tell people why I will continue to live the way I do irrespective
anybody judging me
Believing in yourself is always
important but during this time its importance goes a bit higher
If I keep these two things in my mind I find it
easier to stay on track, what do you think?
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Tanvee
Yeah u nailed it. All the best.
ReplyDeletethank you Gopinath :)
DeleteYes, believing in yourself and appreciating yourself too. I think many people don't appreciate themselves. :D
ReplyDeleteI am one of those people..I need to keep reminding myself or somebody has to remind me...I am still working on this
DeleteVery good post! It is often a process that happens simultaneously isn't it? Positive actions, positive thoughts, and appreciation of what you are able to do.
ReplyDeletethank you Diane, this is a slow process for me..I am working on being able to appreciate what I do, sometimes I am very critical..its my 2014 resolution :)
Delete:) I know I have a hard time staying positive!
ReplyDeleteLove your post and happy holidays!
xo
I am very positive but I am not good at appreciating myself..that's a work in progress for me :) happy holidays to you too
DeleteSo true! Thanks for the reminder :) Good post!
ReplyDeletethank you Sheetal :)
Deletethank you Daniel :)
ReplyDeleteThat's all good! Just don't rationalize yourself out of the plan! It's very common to do that.
ReplyDeleteVigilance and consistency!
Hey Tanvee - you are doing well
ReplyDeleteGood post
All the best Jan