The other day I was talking to my sister, we were talking about fitness and she mentioned she was trying to lose a few pounds. She is not really
overweight but she wants to tone up, we were just brainstorming thinking about
what she can do. She is one of those who loves to dance, she does kick boxing
so she is good when it comes to being active but she also loves food. Her eyes actually
light up when she talks about food, so when our talk shifted to food this is
how it went
Sis: I don’t want to DIET, I don’t want to live without eating
Me: Who said you have to live without eating? Who does that?
Sis: Everybody who wants to lose weight first goes on a DIET...
That’s what got me thinking, it’s true when you first think about weight
loss DIET is a word that just tags along. There are so many diets with promises
and great reviews, which is very confusing especially for people like my sister
and me. For us the word DIET means starving and going hungry, so it scares us
or sometime we try it and give up very soon...
In this post I wanted to share why I don’t believe in DIET instead everyday Healthy
Choices makes more sense to me.
What is healthy eating? How do I decide if an option is correct for me? I
just ask the following questions
Is it long term?
Whenever I see any article related to weight loss first thing I note is if
it is something I can manage lifelong. If I try the cabbage soup diet will I
really be able to keep up? 7 days of cabbage soup will make me go crazy and
what happens after the 7 days? I’m sure if I go back to my usual eating I’m
going to go back to my usual weight. If I’m asked to supplement a meal with
some shake will I really be satisfied??
If it is not long term, if I can't
do something life long (because continuing it will harm my health) I personally will not even try it.
Do I have to starve?
Usually when we speak about dieting the first thing that comes to mind is ‘I
have to start eating less’ this is true you might have to start eating less but
the key here is
deciding how less?? If I eat only 500-800
calories a day I will not be able to function, how will I manage to put in
energy for my workout? How will I concentrate at work? Our bodies need energy
(not too much energy) but we need energy to go about our daily life.
If you are starving yourself you doing it wrong. Either ask a nutritionist
or use one of the online applications to decide what the
correct calorie count
is for you.
Do I have to give up on food I love?
Dieting scared me because I thought I will have to give up cookies or Indian
sweets. If I force myself to look away each time there is a cookie around I
know I would feel deprived, frustrated and irritated. How can I be the only one
celebrating my birthday without a cake?? Or how can I always eat carrots when I
want to try the new ice cream flavour?
You don’t have to give up anything completely but you should not get carried
away either.
It’s all about balance. I still have a cookie once in a while, but
I make sure my other meals are healthy or maybe I exercise more to balance it
out. I try new desserts but I share them. Basically I have not forced myself to
give up anything completely but over time I have learned to include it in your
healthy lifestyle.
Do I have to only eat tiny bites and tiny
portions?
If I eat only tiny portions I’m going
to be hungry all the time, instead I decide my portions based on how healthy my
options are. So if we order a pizza instead of having 2 slices, I have ½ a
slice and I have a nice portion of homemade salad. So I’m not left feeling
hungry just because we ordered pizza and I’m not miserable either because I did
not exceed my calorie count.
Is Counting Calories and Measuring lot of hard work?
When I first heard about
counting calories and measuring food I thought it
would take too much time but now I do it all the time even when I’m outside I
count my calories (it’s really not that much trouble).
Initially you might find it difficult to keep counting your calories or
measuring your portions.
I think it is a very good habit and
the best thing about measuring food and counting calories is after sometime you
get an idea so you don’t have to always look for a scale before taking a bite because
you begin to get an approximate idea
What do you think? Is healthy eating a better option than dieting? Or do you
still prefer a quick fix?
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Tanvee